Human Me

There’s Faggots In The Bathroom, Straight Guys Beware!

Some of the things we go through hurt. Recently one of our sisters (trans inmate) was using the bathroom. No big deal really, except she sits to pee. Because of the dangers of a prison environment when they go to the bathroom they go in pairs. There is 1 bathroom for 100 men, 3 stalls in …

Our Gaily Bread: Beginning A New Relationship With God, Let Go Of The Past.

To many people have told me that they were forced to go to church when they were younger and now they hate it. Or they have been attacked by clobbering Christians at some point. There are many reasons why one might decide to no longer accept a Creator. I want to tell you God still loves …

Is It Better To Manage Victims Or To Prevent Them?: I Have A Solution, But I Need YOUR Help!!

I am creating a program called “Reaching Out!”. Its purpose is to provide assistance to those that are in high risk situations an lifestyles with the intention of preventing victims as opposed to managing victims. Ask yourself this question “Is it better to prevent victims or to manage victims? If you had the choice would you …

I Do Not Need To Tell You Why I Love You: Love Requires No Explanation.

Love is just love. It may have many forms but it is self-explanatory. You know when it is present and when it is gone. You know when you have it and when you do not.If I told you, a stranger, I loved you. Would you require an answer? Would you demand a qualifier? Would you …

I Want To Have A Writing Contest: Who Can Inspire Change?

I am reading a book called “The Alchemist” By Paulo Coelho. A truly inspirational piece of literature that has made me reflect inside myself on an extremely profound level.While reading it last night, I thought “This man, Mr. Coelho, has something profound in this text, he has something good to give to the world. What …

Our Gaily Bread: Introducing A New Weekly Post!

Before I am anything else, I am a Christian. Then I am gay, then a gender-bending man, then a father, son, and friend. When I get stressed and/or depressed I always turn to God. When something good happens I turn to Him as well. I know that religion, particularly Christianity, is a sore spot for many …

Fighting Your Own Battles: How The War On LGBT Equality Is Being Fought In Real Life

I read a book on business management a few days ago that was written in 1995. I was surprised there was a chapter on Equal Opportunity Employment. I was anxious to find out what kind of rules were in place for LGBT people 20+ years ago. It was not mentioned. What was mentioned, was a …

New Memories, Old Childhood

I locked you away because your painful,The emotions you spark are unkind and I am more then ready to let them alone.But yet like smoke in a box, you leak out, sometimes unnoticeably. Until its to late and there you are,Forcing me to balance you once more.The truth is I don’t know what to do with …

Coming Together As A Family: Seeking Solidarity?

Our community is interwoven with the word cast away and misfit. Maybe misfit isn’t the appropriate verbage, but you get the idea. Bringing people together is easier then you might think. I did a post a while back that talked about labels we wear. For many, the elimination of labels means true equality. But for the …