Human Me

The Problem With Emptying Yourself: You Have To Fill Up Somewhere

Some people just give and give of themselves freely. Which I think is perfectly fine. If the impression you leave on the world is that you gave everything you had, you did good.In order to continue to give to others you have to have something left inside you to give. Love is free. Love is …

I, Gay, Do Solemnly Swear…

First off, for everyone who reads regularly, thank you, I see you. I also want to apologize for the lapse in posts that happen. Even though I write a post everyday, it sometimes takes a little longer to reach its destination. My family is posting as regularly as is possible for them currently. I am currently …

Is There Solidarity? Because This Gay Needs Your Help..

.My mission is to provide men and women who are incarcerated with a support system that enables us to heal properly, find and address what led us here and ultimately help provide the kind of support necessary for a successful reintegration in to society with an emphasis on the LGBTI + community.That’s my mission. I …

The Faggot Who Knows His Place: Only Accepted When I’m Submissive

I’ve seen Roots. The slave owners family think its cute when the slave wants to read. As if that’s impossible. So I imagine them being thrown a book, because what’s the harm, their never going to read anyhow.Then the slave learns to read anyway. But quietly, once the owner finds out it clicks, it registers. …

Beauty Through Wounds

Ever had a near death experience, one that made you appreciate life again? Perhaps something less traumatic then that? I’ve noticed something about trauma for many people I run across, its a source of strength. Almost everyone I know has endured some sort of trauma in their life. Whether its loss, war, abuse or something else. …

Are You A One Flower Bee Or Do You Sample The Whole Field?

Since gay marriage has only recently been made legal its still hard for many people to view a long term relationship among gays realistic. The stigma has been smoky bars, bath houses and seedy movie theaters. Long relationships lasted the whole weekend. Obviously there were exceptions to this. I don’t know how it was back in …

Love For A Thousand Husbands

When you have a spouse you share intimacy with them. This means things that no one else gets. We tend to have this exclusivity complex where we claim ownership or entitlement to all our partners intimacies. But what if you loved a thousand men? From a religious standpoint this sounds absurd. From a romance standpoint it …

I Have A Challenge For You, Find A Positive Quality In Every Person In Your Life AND Tell Them

The real challenge here is coming up with something genuinely positive that a person might not know about themselves. So that rules out things like commenting on someone’s looks and things of the sort. I mean things like managerial skills or being able to stay at an even temperament under stress. I have to work with some …

Challenging Traditional Masculinity: What Do Gays Have To Prove?

I don’t typically like or even appreciate the machismo act that guys put on for each other. Instead of a warm greeting its a crouching boxers pose and a couple of left jabs. Just to make sure they both know their men. I used to feel obligated to like MMA or fighting in general. Men …